update

I went to San Diego. It wasn't that bad although it had its moments.
I was talking to one of my cousins and was telling them about my job and I was telling them about how I answer the phone. He responded, "whoa that's really gay" and walked away. I did not really take offense, it seems callous to say something like that and assume it to be in good taste. A minor faux-pas in the scheme of things. When all is said in done they appear to be exponentially more functional than my immediate family. They are quite warm and nice people... so much so that I don't care for the most part that they are evangelicals. One of them said he would visit me here sometime. I exchanged emails with my aunt. I probably seem very cold but considering how crazy my parents were acting I am probably seen as a sympathy case. All in all it was not a mistake in going.